One of the things I used to struggle with was forgiveness. Oh, how I would lay up at night thinking about the ways people had hurt me... I would wallow in my self pity as I'm sure the other parties were fast asleep in their beds.
I have since learned to let go... let go and let God.
Ezekiel 33:12-16 (NIV)
If our God can forgive us to the point of not even remembering - when we are all sinners not worthy of his love... how much more so should we forgive those who have sinned against us?
Matthew 6:14 (NIV)
For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.
I don't know about you... but I want my sins forgiven.
Is it easier for me to forgive now than it was say three years ago? YES! Would I say it's easy? NO! Easier yes, easy... no. It's a choice, sometimes daily, to forgive someone.
You know one day we will stand before the King of Kings and we will have to answer for the things we did in our lives. It will not matter what anyone else did or didn't do to or for us... they will have to answer for their lives when it is their time... all that will matter is what you did.
As often as you can, make the right choice - and try to forgive the best you can.